With only 3 more days to spend with her, here is the scoop on my mother... she is a bad cleaner, and a worse cook....I would not hire her as a servant any time soon. Fortunately she is my mother, so I am disregarding it all together.
She wakes up late, watches a movie, and takes a nap. she then wakes up, does a load of dishes and watches something else then goes to bed by nine. It is slightly funny that she thinks she's doing me the favor by being here. I suppose for moral support it is nice, but as far as "helping" she is kinda useless. Not one box has been emptied or moved for that matter. We did get the entertainment center together though, so thats a plus...On the other hand, I think she broke the guest bed all together. (weight) She is everything I fear I may become. But again, she is my mother.
For the most part, i guess I had hoped she'd come and be my support and be right beside me organizing the office, or preparing a nursery, but like you said she just wants quiet bonding time. I'm not used to it, so to me it seems like a waste of time, but I'm trying hard to appease her.
I guess I need friends to help in the house aspect. I'd ask [Preganat Friend], but she comes with Kids, and shes useless, Bitchy Friend is gone, and Crying Friend only has so many days off that she spends them tanning and shopping. So back to doing it alone. At that, I won't be doing it much longer I'm determined to find a job. Anything.
Kinda depressing, and I hope its done by the time you get back. I don't want to be one of "those wives" where you wonder what the hell I did for 6 months.
Anyways, just bitching. Contrary to popular belief, sitting on my ass is not at all my style.
Okaay, so hows your day?.
I love you. Your Wifey
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