Night One/ Day 1

 Night one has ended all too quickly, and before the dog can wake me from the couch, I’m woken up by the blaring cartoons of an eleven year old brother. Wasn’t I trying to get away from cartoons? And why am I on a couch? That’s right my bed is in a storage unit 4 hours away, and that’s where I am. Four hours away.

My mother is upset that I have slept my first night at my father’s house. I suppose the time-share of children between divorced parents doesn’t end; even if that child has completed her college education, and has escaped from two endangered marriage engagements.

Like most tragic experiences, I find I haven’t cried yet. Perhaps there is nothing to cry about. Time away is only that--time away. As I arrived to my new ‘home,’ I immediately fulfilled paperwork needed for my sorority-- a stress I love, so one I suppose I will never give up. As I charged the battery to my phone, friends called pledging their love and support, saying that I was but a call or drive away. Ironically, the person I drove four hours to be away from, was the first to insure I arrived safely to my destination.

Where am I? Comics, have affectionately called this town, a waiting room for hell. I’m four hours away from nothing. The reality is wherever you go, there you are.

I still haven’t cried. Emotion after emotion floods my mind, with only random tangents leaving their impression. On the phone, a relationship between two people I call friends is on the rise, and after nearly dropping the phone from exhaustion, I affectionately explain, I am no one to question on the matters of love.

If the truth were told, my mind is nowhere it should be. I feel I should be hurting, or sad, or at least lonely. But I’m none of these. Not now. Maybe I’ve been all of this way too long, and-- now knowing that I am physically alone—I am quite comfortable with the idea.

Perhaps not. Deep down I’m fighting every urge to make a phone call or send a message to someone, I had no business ever talking too. Even thinking on it now, I smile. I was happy for one night, and I refuse to feel guilty for that. *Sigh. I’ve always had the worst of timing. Be it just my fashion, to find someone a minute early, and not express that till a night too late. Well, the difficulty now lies in knowing, a night can never be stretched out into forever. “It can’t, it’s not supposed to.” Even so, I think everyone always tries to do so—stretch a single moment of happiness till it can’t be stretched any longer.

My mind wanders. Next Wednesday, July 21st, California, Dallas. Am I really trying to see a concert anymore? Or just find an excuse?  

I should be crying. Shouldn’t I? Two years can go away so quickly. One storage unit, a few goodbyes, and two tanks of gas. For him, a new car shines so brightly I don’t think he even saw me walk out the door. But I left a long time ago.

Now I’m here, in the waiting room of hell, waiting for the backlash that has already begun. I just never thought I’d be missing everything and everyone but the one I left.

 

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