FM Cacique
Subject: For Women from a Man


Especially for the Women



1. If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want
you, nothing can make him stay.

2. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.

3. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

4. Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not
meant to be.

5. Slower is better.

6. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you
truly happy.

7. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as
you deserve then heck no you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't
mistreat a friend.

8. Don't settle.

9. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.

10. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be
mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.

11. The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

12. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different
women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he
treat you any differently?

13. Always have your own set of friends separate from his.

14. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something
bothers you, speak up.

15. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you
later.

16. You cannot change a man's behaviors. Change comes from within.

17. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you
are...Even if he has more education or a better job.

18. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more
nothing less.

19. Never let a man define who you are.

20. Never borrow someone else's man.

21. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.

22. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.

23. All men are NOT dogs.

24. You should not be the one doing all the bending...Compromise is
a two way street.

25. You need time to heal between relationships...There is nothing
cute about baggage... Deal with your issues before pursuing a new
relationship.

26. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...A
relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals... Look for someone
complimentary, not supplementary.

27. Dating is fun...Even if he doesn't turn out tobe Mr. Right.

28. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you
are and you're always readily available to him- he takes it for
granted.

29. Never move into his mother's house.

30. Never co-sign for a man. (Hallelujah, thank you Jesus!)

31. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that
you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.



Women, pass this on. You'll make someone smile, another re-think her
choices and another woman prepare. Guys, send this to the women you love
and the men who have to learn how to love women right. They say it
takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day
to love them, and an entire life to forget them