Someone once told me its amazing how people focus more on what we don't say, rather than what we do say.

Two examples of this:

Yesterday I questioned my Legal Methods professor... I left him "stumped;"and, he had no answer. Its amazing to leave a god in your eyes speechless.

Second example, I think a good friend of mine here has taken my silence on my personal life as an absence and "want"for a personal life. Moreover the personal life I do have, if one exist, functions --in fact-- on what is not said.

We-human beings, collectively- are excited to guess that what is not said is in fact what we want to hear.