Congratulations:
Spring 2004, "Los Cinco Sentidos"
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#2 "F"
#3 "P"
#4 "F"
#5 "S"
Happy 1 year Anniversary!!
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ABOUT DCGossipGirl
Followers
You can tell it's March when...
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE
one old love
she can imagine
going back to...
and one who reminds
her how far she has come...
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE
enough money within her
control to move out and
rent a place of her own
even if she never wants
to or needs to...
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE
something perfect to wear if
the employer or date of her dreams
wants to see her in an hour.
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE
a youth she's content
to leave behind....
a past juicy enough that
she's looking forward to
retelling it in her old age....
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE
a set of screwdrivers, a
cordless drill, and a black lace bra...
one friend who always makes
her laugh ... and one who lets her cry...
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE
a good piece of furniture
not previously owned by anyone
else in her family...
eight matching plates, wine
glasses with stems, and a recipe
for a meal that will make her
guests feel honored.
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE
a feeling of control over
her destiny...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
how to fall in love without
losing herself.
HOW TO QUIT A JOB,
BREAK UP WITH A LOVER,
AND CONFRONT A FRIEND
WITHOUT RUINING THE FRIENDSHIP...
when to try harder ... and
WHEN TO WALK AWAY...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
that she can't change the
length of her calves, the width
of her hips, or the nature of her
parents....
that her childhood may not
have been perfect...but it's over...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
what she would and wouldn't
do for love or more...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
how to live alone ... even if
she doesn't like it...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
whom she can trust,
whom she can't,
and why she shouldn't
take it personally...
where to go...
be it to her best friend's kitchen table...
or a charming inn in the woods...
when her soul needs soothing...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
what she can and can't
accomplish ina day...
a month...and a year.
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FM Cacique
Subject: For Women from a Man
Especially for the Women
1. If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want
you, nothing can make him stay.
2. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
3. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
4. Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not
meant to be.
5. Slower is better.
6. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you
truly happy.
7. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as
you deserve then heck no you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't
mistreat a friend.
8. Don't settle.
9. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
10. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be
mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
11. The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
12. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different
women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he
treat you any differently?
13. Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
14. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something
bothers you, speak up.
15. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you
later.
16. You cannot change a man's behaviors. Change comes from within.
17. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you
are...Even if he has more education or a better job.
18. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more
nothing less.
19. Never let a man define who you are.
20. Never borrow someone else's man.
21. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
22. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
23. All men are NOT dogs.
24. You should not be the one doing all the bending...Compromise is
a two way street.
25. You need time to heal between relationships...There is nothing
cute about baggage... Deal with your issues before pursuing a new
relationship.
26. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...A
relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals... Look for someone
complimentary, not supplementary.
27. Dating is fun...Even if he doesn't turn out tobe Mr. Right.
28. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you
are and you're always readily available to him- he takes it for
granted.
29. Never move into his mother's house.
30. Never co-sign for a man. (Hallelujah, thank you Jesus!)
31. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that
you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
Women, pass this on. You'll make someone smile, another re-think her
choices and another woman prepare. Guys, send this to the women you love
and the men who have to learn how to love women right. They say it
takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day
to love them, and an entire life to forget them
Subject: For Women from a Man
Especially for the Women
1. If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want
you, nothing can make him stay.
2. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
3. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
4. Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not
meant to be.
5. Slower is better.
6. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you
truly happy.
7. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as
you deserve then heck no you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't
mistreat a friend.
8. Don't settle.
9. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
10. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be
mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
11. The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
12. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different
women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he
treat you any differently?
13. Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
14. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something
bothers you, speak up.
15. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you
later.
16. You cannot change a man's behaviors. Change comes from within.
17. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you
are...Even if he has more education or a better job.
18. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more
nothing less.
19. Never let a man define who you are.
20. Never borrow someone else's man.
21. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
22. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
23. All men are NOT dogs.
24. You should not be the one doing all the bending...Compromise is
a two way street.
25. You need time to heal between relationships...There is nothing
cute about baggage... Deal with your issues before pursuing a new
relationship.
26. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...A
relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals... Look for someone
complimentary, not supplementary.
27. Dating is fun...Even if he doesn't turn out tobe Mr. Right.
28. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you
are and you're always readily available to him- he takes it for
granted.
29. Never move into his mother's house.
30. Never co-sign for a man. (Hallelujah, thank you Jesus!)
31. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that
you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
Women, pass this on. You'll make someone smile, another re-think her
choices and another woman prepare. Guys, send this to the women you love
and the men who have to learn how to love women right. They say it
takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day
to love them, and an entire life to forget them
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32 Hours. no excuses . but now as lunch gets made 20 min nap before the next 24
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CALLING J
For the Past two weekends, my girls have created the Theme song...
Zuby Zuby Roo
Where R You...
(It just gets worse from there)
But...in the same light.....
J---WHERE R U?????? CALL A SISTER UP!!!!!
All my home-skillet biscuits are accounted for but you :)
--Lil bro's birthday is this Weekend. Your Fam so ofcourse you're invited.
PS. CAN WE ALL GIVE J A HAPPY BIRTHDAY--DELAYED BUT ALWAYS ACCOUNTED FOR.
Zuby Zuby Roo
Where R You...
(It just gets worse from there)
But...in the same light.....
J---WHERE R U?????? CALL A SISTER UP!!!!!
All my home-skillet biscuits are accounted for but you :)
--Lil bro's birthday is this Weekend. Your Fam so ofcourse you're invited.
PS. CAN WE ALL GIVE J A HAPPY BIRTHDAY--DELAYED BUT ALWAYS ACCOUNTED FOR.
4:58 PM | Filed Under | 1 Comments
I might be the only person in the world to be thinking that driving home to JM's Daughters is ironic. good night,great morning
3:33 AM | Filed Under | 0 Comments