I'm changing my life. Again.
Why? What? Who?
Why Because I needed a change: The following blog should answer this.
What? Goal list. Challenges. Motivation in small accomplish-able task.
Who: My ex and me. (Yeah, its weird, I know)
Huh? Okay here's the deal: It's taking a break-up, and an age old adage: "Be the change you wish to see." What?!?!?!? Did I break up? Am I no longer, happily ever after? NO...quite the opposite. I'm HAPPY and TOO CONTENT.
Ever get into a rut? A comfortable place where you add on pounds and forget to do your make up, and wear sweats to your mans for softball games? Okay, well, that's where I'm at. Thanks for asking.
But, the Challenge: Seeing a friend in a cycle of destruction, and finding myself in a similar life funk...I realized it is time for a change...or Rather, a return to the basics. My proposal? A challenge to charting and accomplishing small life long changes. Create some goals. Create a deadline. Chart out the Little Things to make the Big Goal Happen.
Step One: Create Some Goals. Here are mine (so far):.
GOAL LIST BY SEPTEMBER 1.
Vanity
Good hair-Wen
Good smile-Whitening Products
Good Skin-ProActiv
Good makeup-Bare Minerals
Health
Vitamin Regime
30 day fitness-continuing with 30 day abs
Loose and Track Weight
Set up weights/boxing unit
Financial
Remain Debt free
Pay Obligations-
Pay Org Fees
Savings account-Hawaii
Savings account-Me (personal goal? $500?) -I'll figure that out, I guess?
Spiritual
BE a BEtter Friend. Send Cards
Learn Language
Start blogging again. (See, I'm serious!)
House
Clean it all-
Follow Clean House in 30 days?
Restore Baby Room
Sell CRAP in Garage (SALE)
create a fitting closet.
Partnership
Thank your partner for what he DOES do..work, school, cooking, hard labor
Appreciate your partner for what he DOESNT do. Eg. He doesn't cheat. He doesn't smoke. He doesn't walk away when things get hard...
Don't nag-Assign mutual chores
Okay that's it. This is the plan. Hopefully this is step one to getting it back...AGAIN. :)
xoxox,
your (not so lost) Gossip Girl